Thursday, November 20, 2014

Box Out Bullying

What is the difference between a conflict and bullying?
How can you tell the difference?

What are some ways you can help resolve a conflict?
What are some ways you can stop bullying from happening?

Explain your thinking by giving examples for each.


21 comments:

  1. The difference between conflict and bullying is a conflict can happen only once. Bullying is something that happens over and over on purpose. You can tell the difference is when you are in a conflict it is usually a misunderstanding. Bullying targets you and bother you repeatedly. Some ways you can resolve a conflict is by saying sorry this was just a misunderstanding. Another way to solve a conflict is by asking for help. Some ways you can stop bullying are walking away, take the person being bullied away to do something with you and speaking to an adult.

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  2. The diffrence bewtween bullying and conflict is that conflict can only happen one time and it is usally by an accedent. Bullying is when someone keeps and keeps on calling you names or being mean in another way.One thing I will do to solve a conflict is by telling the person what they are doing and how they are making people feel and they would proberly stop because they dont know what they are doing and then they would apoligize. One thing I will not do right away is tell a teacher because since the person is not bullying just conflict and you have to give them a chance first,not tell right away. One thing you can do to stop bullying is also by telling the bully how they are making you feel and ask them ''would you like it if I did this to you,you would not like it,would you''. If that does not work then I will tell a teacher,but of course not right away because you need to give them a chance!

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  3. The difference between conflict and bullying is conflict only happens once and bullying happens all the time.one way to solve a conflict is to tell a trusty adult after you give the bully to explain why he is acting that way or tell the kid how he makes you feel and he might stop.If the bully doesn't stop bullying you then you should ask him “well what if I bullied you would you like it” because they deserve to know what it feels like.

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  4. The difference between bullying and a conflict is a conflict happens by accident and usually not a lot. And bullying happens on purpose over and over again.It does not happen by accident. The way to resolve a conflict is to apologize and talk about it. The way to resolve bullying is to tell an adult. A teacher or guardian or parent. You can talk about it.you can be assertive and tell them how you feel. Because bullying is not an accident. Don't be afraid to tell the bully how you feel.

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  5. The difference between conflict and bulling is conflict only happens one time and bulling happens every day for example say a kid got hurt then a other kid goes gets the teachers. And bulling is when a kid hits a kid on purpuse they say if you tell anyone i am going to hurt you even more.

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  6. The difference between a conflict and bulling is that when you see bulling you know its bulling because it not on accident (on purpose). Also, it happens more than once. A conflict is on accident and it only happens once. You can tell an adult or guardian if you are being bullied, but first you can try to deal with it and stick up for yourself. you can resolve a conflict by sharing your feelings and listen to what other people have to say and if you are the one who hurt someones feelings you can say sorry.

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  7. conflict and bullying bullying is when a kid hits a kid they say if you tell anyone iam going to hurt you even more and conflict is when a kid gets hurt author kid gets the teacher to help that kid.

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  8. One way we can stop bullying from happening is we can work together and stay together. The difference between bullying and conflict is bulling is when someone is being mean to you over and over again. A conflict only happens once. Another way we can stop bullying from happening is to tell the bully to leave the kids alone and tell him how would he feel if someone did the same to him. I would ask him how would he feel if someone calls him names and make up lies about him. A conflict is when something happens once, for example when playing catch with a friend and the ball hits someone a bully would want to say nasty things and the other would apologize.

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  9. The difference between bullying and conflicts is bullying it happens on purpose and it happens again and again.conflict only happens once a problem had started but it is a kid problem that means that a kid could solve it by them selfs without telling a teacher or parent.You might need to tell a teacher or a parent that you are getting bullied because without anyone knowing how could a parent or teacher help you to solve that problem.If a conflict keeps happening you should tell a adult before it becomes bullying.

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  10. The difference between conflict and bullying is that conflict is when you or another person tease someone once or by accident.Bullying is when you or another person tease someone on purpose again and again. You could tell the difference because if someone came up to you and told you that you couldn't sit with them and this repeated, that would be bullying. But someone who makes you feel bad about yourself once and only once, would be a conflict. Some ways to resolve conflict are to tell the person to stop or cut it out. If that doesn't work, ask an adult to help. Some ways to stop bullying from happening is to get help from friends. For example, if you're being bullied, go get friends to help out. Or if it gets out of control, then get an adult.

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  11. THE KOFSTER AKA KOFINovember 20, 2014 at 6:56 PM

    Conflict is when friends argue once but then figure it out and become friends again and work it out bullying is when a kid is threatening or hurting another kids feelings multiple times. A way to solve a conflict is always be a good friend for example if you and your friends always play what you want then one day your friend wanted to play something else to stop conficts you should let them choose. A way to stop bullying is include everyone.

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  12. The difference in bullying and conflict is that when you get into a conflict it's by accident or it just happens once. When you get bullied it happens over and over on purpose.You could tell if it's bulling if they said you could not play everyday you try to ask.Another example is if they call you hurtful names everyday then that is bullying. Some ways to resolve a conflict is to say in a nice way.For example lets say you are drawing and you put down the marker and the other kid takes it.You can nicely tell them that you were using it.If that does not work you can wait for the child to finish using it.Some ways to resolve bulling is to say to stop and explain that it was bullying.If it didn't work you can tell an adult that you trust.

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  13. The difference of bulling and conflict is bulling means it keeps on happening over and over and treating other kids and teachers with no respect. Conflict means when somebody is lift out you go and say would you want to play with me. Maybe when somebody is getting bulled you say don't listen to him/her and go with me when you bully it's not a good thing but when your conflict you are helping out.

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  14. party girl in the house kyleighNovember 20, 2014 at 7:13 PM

    bulling and conflict are not the same beacause bulling is when you hurt someone and on purpose and feels good about it . conflict is when you do it by accident and have empathy about the problem.also my example is i see so many kids at recess feel so left out its extremly sad and i believe that no child should go through this.my second exanple is that i hear kids telling secrets about one anthor its very bad because kids self asteam will break. my last reason is that kids all over the world are bullied so stand up speak up.

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  15. The difference between conflict and bullying is a conflict is something that happens once and usally on accident.Bullying is something that happens over and over on purpose.For example if you're lookinf for a book to read and yo take it out of the basket and set it on the shelf for one second so you can put your old book back in the basket and when you go to get the boom back and it's gone you see someone has it and you say "hey thet is my book" and they say "well now it's mine" and this only happens this one time then that is ok and it is a conflict.But when say someone in the playground everyday at recess is picking on you then try to solve it yourself and if that does't work tell an adult.You can tell the difference because this won't keep happening and they probaly didn't mean to do it meaning that it was an accident,but bullying keeps happening and they will definetly not say sorry.To help resolve a conflict you can tell them to each say sorry.Another way to resolve a conflict is remind them that it was by accident.Lastly say that it won't happen again.Some ways to help stop bulying from happening is include others have empathy for others and don't bully others.like if there is a new kid ask if they want to sit at your table and if someone did something bad to you don't start bullying them ignore them and if they keep bugging you then go tell an adult/teacher,and lastly if you see someone is sad go over to them comfort them and give empathy.

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  16. The difference between conflict and bullying is that conflict happens once and when you tell them to stop they stop but bullying happens over and over again. for a example of conflict if you are at recess and a kid comes up and they take your ball and you say "give it back!"that is conflict.so then the same thing is happening and another kid takes your ball and you say "give it back!"and they don't give it back and this happens day after day then you tell a teacher or you can find a kid who is also being bullied and show empathy and you can say hey do you want to play with me?another way is if you walk away.

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  17. A conflict happens only once and is usually by accident. For example Manny was sitting in his chair and he went to go get water and when he came back George was sitting in his chair and he said “Hey you are sitting in my chair!” But bullying happens again and again and on purpose. For example if Mario tells Mary she can’t play with Jack because he’s a boy and it happens every day. You can stop conflict by compromising. For example, Manny could have sat in a different chair while George sat in his. You can stop bullying by telling an adult at school or an adult at home. For example, if someone was getting bullied by a kid who was older than him and it happened every single recess you could tell a teacher or a parent.

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  18. The #4 frog aka charlieNovember 20, 2014 at 8:30 PM

    There is a difference between a conflict and bullying. A conflict is when you and your friend or someone else have a misunderstanding and get angry at each other, but realize it was a misunderstanding and solve the problem. This only happens once. Bullying is when one person hurts another person in many different ways. Maybe slapping them maybe peer pressure and so on, on purpose. This happens many times over and over. The way to tell the difference between bullying and conflicts is if someone is being mean to you the way you tell the difference is if that same kid is mean to you over and over, that is bullying and you can tell they are doing it on purpose by there tone of voice. A way to solve a conflict is when you are fighting someone explain what the other person misunderstood and say sorry to each other. To stop someone from bullying you is that once you realize someone is bullying you, you tell an adult immediately and tell all the adults you trust.

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  19. The difference between conflict and bullying is conflict is a accident and when you do it you dont mean it in a hurtful way. Bullying is when you do something on purpose and you mean to do it.

    You can tell the difference between conflict and bullying because when someone is bullying you they act really mean. With conflict the person isn't mean about it.

    To solve a conflict what I would do would be to ask the other person if they meant to do it and try to figure out what's going on and how to solve the problem.

    A way I would stop bullying from happening would be to stand up for the other person and tell the bully that that's not nice, or I could tell a teacher.

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  20. The difference between conflict and bullying is bullying happens a lot of times and it's on purpose, for example when somebody pushes you or says "get out of my way" tons of times, on purpose then thats being a bully. But if someone bumps into you only once or twice and they say "oops sorry" then thats a conflict, for example when Jahvarie bumps into me [which only happened once or twice] he always says "sorry" and helps me up. But bullies do stuff on purpose like push you around, call you names all that stuff.

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  21. Seven the Awesome and cool !November 20, 2014 at 9:01 PM

    A conflict is the type problem that you can usually talk out with your friends. If your friend or anyone is bothering you can say to them, you wouldn't like it if this was happening to you and fix any problems you have. Though bulling is a problem that keeps happening over and over again that hurts someone heart and feelings. A great way to fix a conflict in my opinion is to talk things out. When someone is being bullied in my opinion you should always tell an adult what is happening. I think that people that bully people have been bullied or hurt before. I would tell the bully that I would be there friend if they would just stop bulling.

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